Struggling with Motivation

Struggling with Motivation

Another week, another day! It’s Saturday as I sit in front of my computer staring at a blank screen. I usually put out a blog post every Sunday morning, and at four o’clock Saturday afternoon, I still didn’t have anything ready to post. Oh, I have lots of ideas floating around in my head and even have some blog post drafts with paragraphs already started, but I can’t seem to find the motivation to complete any of them.

Why I’m not motivated

I don’t know about you, but I’m about over it … over this new normal, new reality, new whatever we want to call it. I’m tired of cooking. I want to go out to a restaurant (carry-outs don’t count). I want to be able to go shopping and not just for groceries. I need a new purse. I’d like to visit friends face to face and not just via computer or Facetime. I think we’re all ready for this pandemic to be over especially our heroes on the frontline who are surely exhausted.

Last week my spell check and Grammarly crapped out on my computer and I put out a blog post with a typo in the title. Yep, a typo in the title! ūü§¶‚Äć‚ôÄÔłŹ Thank goodness for loyal readers/friends who aren’t afraid to DM me and point out my faux pas. Oh, how embarrassing. I reelly am edumicated.ūü•ī

One way shopping aisle – who would’ve imagined?

This whole new world order has me oscillating from being an efficient, organized, productive human being to a total blob on the couch who can’t remember when she last showered. Thank goodness Al’s allergies are bad and he can’t smell a thing ūüėÜ. However, I am living in a desert (Phoenix, Arizona) where water is a precious commodity and should be conserved for the greater good of mankind. Therefore, I’m doing my part to conserve water. That’s my story, and I’m sticking to it!

Skylight finally getting replaced. The white duct tape worked wonders on the cracked skylight. Me removing screws.

What I have accomplished

In reality, the past couple of weeks, I’ve cranked out a few projects. So my time hasn’t been totally wasted binging things on TV or the computer. Al and I tackled some RV repairs on the roof. We replaced a skylight and two vents. Those projects were long overdue, but hey, that duct tape worked great until we could get around to replacing the broken items.¬† Next week, we’ll replace the final vent and get the RV closer to being ready for our summer journey to Wisconsin. That stay at home order better be lifted by June 1st or my RV and I may melt. This week temps in Phoenix will be in the 90’s (Fahrenheit) and by June they’ll be hitting the 100’s. But it’s a dry heat!

I also helped my sister-in-law paint two accent walls in her home. I can’t believe she’s never painted before, but after my excellent tutelage (LOL), she’s ready to tackle her next project; a bedroom. And since she and her husband just moved to Phoenix from Denver and were still waiting on the moving truck to arrive, I fixed them a couple of meals that they could just heat up … pulled pork and a lasagna.

Photo prompt – Mother Nature Earth

So, since my brain can’t seem to focus on writing, I thought I’d join a photo challenge. My friend, Terri, posts a “Sunday Still’s” photo prompt every weekend and this Sunday the theme is Mother Nature. Okay, I even read Terri’s prompt incorrectly. It should be Mother Earth and not Mother Nature. Yeah, my mind is total moosh lately. With that said, My first thoughts for the prompt were images of weather. As a full-time RVer and traveler, I’m well acquainted with Mother Nature’s diverse personality when it comes to weather, but lately, certain parts of the U.S. have experienced her wrath. Thus, I’ll turn my focus elsewhere.

desert image

Mother Nature can be defined as caring, nurturing, and life-giving and with that in mind, I’ve decided to share images of flowers which is perfect for the Mother Earth theme. After all, flowers need care, nurturing, and grow in the earth. Besides, they make me smile and we could all use a few extra smiles these days.

And be sure and check out my partner in crime, Teri over at Images by T. Dashfield. She takes amazing floral images and I’m counting on her to provide me with a tulip fix. Oh, how I adore tulips! Keep those photos coming, Teri aka Macro Queen ūüėÄ

How did your week go? (Grrr, my spell check still won’t work right. All I get is a red line indicating it’s wrong and no help to correct it. And trust me, I need all the help I can get.)

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Blogging Lessons Learned

We all start blogs for different reasons.¬†¬†I started this blog a little over three years ago as a means to¬†personally¬†document our travels and keep family and friends up to date on our journey.¬† I’ll admit, it’s morphed into something much more than I ever expected.ButterfliesI never¬†anticipated the social aspect of blogging¬†and the making of some wonderful friends along the way…. what an amazing discovery. ¬†Some of those friendships will remain¬†cyber based¬†while others have and will develop into more.¬† Thus, I’m very¬†pleased I started the blog.

Botanical Garden
new friendships are forged – Nancy from Two Trails One Road and I enjoy a day at the Desert Botanical Garden in Phoenix, AZ

The past couple of weeks, hubby and I have been doing some remodeling on our son’s home and having a lot of fun in the process.¬† I know, our son thinks we’re crazy too. While painting cabinets, my mind wandered as I thought about blog material.¬† “What ever shall I write about?”¬† I thought about how comfortable I’ve become with writing and sharing.¬† It sure wasn’t that way in the beginning.¬†¬†¬†It¬†took me awhile to find my style, my voice,¬†and learn some¬†lessons along the way.¬† So today I thought I’d share a few of MY personal thoughts and opinions on blogging and¬†a few¬†lessons learned.

blogging 1011.¬† First off, there’s no right or wrong way to blog.¬† Blogging is personal.¬† Some folks blog as an outlet to express themselves while others hope to monetize their¬†site.¬† Some of my favorite blog sites are the ones that are educational.¬† I’ve picked up great photography tips as well as discovered some ‘must see’ places to visit from other bloggers.

2.¬† Finding my voice.¬† It took me awhile to find my¬†voice and style.¬†¬†I really¬†struggled with this in the beginning.¬† I remember watching American Idol years ago and the judges would always tell the contestants to make the song their own.¬†That’s easier said than done, but in the end it’s all about being yourself, being honest, and¬†true to yourself.¬†There’s no need to¬†copy or plagiarise.

3.¬† Writing has never been easy for me.¬† I can’t tell you how many times I stare at¬†a blank computer screen with severe writers block.¬† It took me awhile to¬†find what works for me.¬† I need to visualize.

bloggingAl and I went on a fabulous hike several weeks ago and I couldn’t wait to write about it, but couldn’t seem to find the words.¬†¬†A friend of ours wanted to know all about¬†the trail¬†and whether or not¬†he and his wife should attempt the hike.

As soon as I envisioned myself sitting across the table having a drink with Gary, the story of that hike made it onto the blog in quick order.¬† So now whenever I get stuck with that blank computer screen, I¬†visualize I’m chatting over coffee with a dear¬†friend.

4.¬† White space.¬† It’s important to break up text with paragraphs and pictures.¬† By breaking up the text it’s easier to read and less overwhelming.

5.¬† Speaking of pictures – always, always include a photograph, cartoon, or graph of some sort to hold the reader’s attention.¬† Think of an ad in a newspaper.¬† All ads have some visual content that draws the reader’s eye in.¬†¬†It’s important to add that visual content even if your blog is writing based.¬† That visual aid will help tell the story and keep a reader’s attention.¬† It’s also extremely important to¬†display the photo or graph¬†large enough for readers to see it clearly.

Do not expect readers to click on an image¬†to enlarge it.¬†Most folks don’t have the time or inclination to enlarge individual photos.¬† I know I don’t.¬† I will however enlarge a gallery when it’s displayed in a slide show fashion, IF I have time.¬† In many of my earlier blog posts, my photos were¬†entered in the thumbnail or medium size format.¬† It was only after a couple of seasoned bloggers recommended that I post my photos in a larger format that I started doing just that.

wild donkey's
Are you listening? Yes, I’m all ears!

6.¬† Write an About page letting folks know what you and your blog are all about.¬† Before I decide to¬†“follow” a blog, I always read the About page.¬† Not everyone is

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I’m not afraid to show you the real me!

comfortable posting a photo of themselves, but I find a photo along with general information of residency to be more engaging – more relatable.

7.¬† Editing is a biggie.¬† I’ve learned to edit and then re-edit…..¬†¬† proof read, reread,¬†and¬†spell check.

I try to do my homework on a subject by doing proper research before publishing.¬†I do get it wrong sometimes and am never insulted when a reader¬†enlightens me to my faux pas. ¬†I also like¬†linking to other sites giving my readers the option of more information if they’re interested.

Keeping my posts simple and under 1,000 words is my goal.  If I have a long story, I break it up into parts.

8.¬† And then there’s the social aspect of blogging;¬†this has been the most fun for me.¬† Make sure your Gravatar is linked properly or other bloggers can’t visit your site.¬†That is if you enjoy the social aspect of the blogosphere, and if not, that’s ok too.

I love receiving comments and responding, but every now and then a troll stops by…. you know, someone looking to pick a fight.¬† I can honestly say in the time I’ve been blogging I think I’ve only had 2 such encounters.¬† So embrace the positive comments and ignore the negative ones.lizard9.¬† Be a student….. as I read other blogs I pay attention to design, layout, ease of site navigation, and other details.¬† I also check to see how my blog shows up on different devices.¬† I use my hubby’s laptop to check how fast my site loads.¬† Some WordPress themes load faster than others.¬†¬†You don’t want a slow site or¬†you may not¬†have many readers.

Design –¬†Is¬†the site easy to navigate?¬† Can a visitor quickly tell what the blogs purpose is?¬† What color text to use?¬† Black with white text¬†versus white with black text? ¬†A lot of blogs specializing in photography use a black background with white text.¬† Supposedly the photos show better.¬† My aging eyes have difficulty with the black background.¬† Thus, I personally follow only one or two blogs that use black with white text.¬† Give me a nice white background any day whether the blog’s focus is photography or writing.garden photography10.¬† Write for yourself first.¬† Remember this is suppose to be fun and we don’t want to make¬†blogging feel like a job (unless that’s the intent).¬† Some say publish posts consistently and on a schedule. I say… post when you feel like it.

Oops, I’ve surpassed my 1,000 word count limit….. happy blogging!
BUT¬†one last thought, my cyber friend Sue and I had a telepathic moment…. check out her¬†recent post on “Getting more blog comments”¬†– click here¬†for more insightful suggestions.

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Education Questioned…

As I admire my handy work, I also question my writing abilities.  You see, I just spent the last five days working on a scrapbook.  A scrapbook about our six-week journey.  A scrapbook on this blog.  By printing out or retyping my posts, it required me to reread all postings.  Eek!

I’ve never felt I had exceptional writing skills, and after reading these posts, not only have my feelings been confirmed, I now question my education.¬† I am appalled, embarrassed, mortified…..shall I continue…..¬† I detect typos, misspellings, improper sentence structure, overuse of punctuation, etc. etc.¬† I always read and reread prior to publishing.¬† Perhaps I should¬†sleep on a posting before publishing.¬† Perhaps, the next day I’ll catch the error of my way.

I wonder…. should I go back,correct all mistakes, and update each posting?¬† I ask Al.¬† His response, “Why did you start a blog to begin with?”¬† Hum, why did I start this blog?¬† I started this blog as a form of journal, documenting our travels for our children.¬† My mom journaled, but her handwriting¬†was almost illegible and in another language.¬† Therefore, we (her children) are unable to read them.¬† Oh, how I wish they were more legible.¬† Al and I visited several areas my folks stayed at during their RVing¬†days.¬†I would love to know more details of their travels.¬† I would love to visit the very spots they visited.¬†And their photos?¬† Well most are in boxes.¬† I wish the photos were with¬†a corresponding journal entry.¬† Thus, my blog was born!

So since my motivation is for personal reasons and not for monetary or notoriety reasons, I’ll leave the mistakes.¬† Yes, a flawed individual capable of butchering the English language.¬† We won’t mention my Chicago accent¬† …..da bears!

The embarrassment has passed.¬† I’ll continue to blog.¬† I’ll write as I speak, as improper as that may be.¬† It is what it is….flaws and all!